This seems to work
module top;
class A;
rand bit [5:0] num[];
constraint inside0_10 {
num.size() inside{[30:50]};
}
constraint uniq {
foreach (num[i]) num.sum() with (6'(item==num[i]))<3;
}
endclass
A a=new;
initial begin
assert(a.randomize());
$display("%p ",a.num);
end
endmodule